friendships

we go through this lifetime meeting lot of people along our way..whether their your classmates in Kindergarten, your neighbor, your high school classmate, your college blockmate, co-worker or just anybody introduced to us by our common friends...we may label these people as our acquaintance, friend, best friend, close friend, bff or whatever we may wanna call them..

but the question is, how are we to differentiate who our true friends are and those who just befriend you just because they enjoy your company, or they can tell you how naughty they can get or how big their problems are financially...

yes, most of the time we'''ll say that true friends are those who'll stay by you in the hardest times of out lives, those times that you don't want to talk about it but still hoping that at one point when you are ready, that friend you trust the most will just be there to listen and even not say a word then everything will be fine..

but think there's more to friendship than these, sometimes, when we have a lot of friends, and you tend to enjoy the company especially of those people you just met and you're having one hell ofa time just laughing about tons of things, don't we sometimes forget that those friends who stood by you whenever your lonely, very down.

is that selfishness? i don't think so. I think it's more painful being neglected by those people you care so much about just because they don't think or feel that you'll be of help to them or they'll be happier and more comfortable sharing what they feel to their other friends. the hard part is, it's hard to tell it to their faces..because of course you love them so you can't afford to hurt them

bottomline is..it's really hard to find and keep true friends...